Monday, September 28, 2009
Article 1 - Love is a losing game..
Firstly, I just wanna say that what ever I have written here are mostly from my personal thoughts and believes. So i might have a different perpective from people but you are still able to express anything in the chat box on the side.
Love can be a losing game if you do not know how to play your hands very well. From my experience on playing poker, you must really know your hand well in order to win. Same thing could almost be apply when falling in love. Is it right for you to get to know someone when you are currently attached? wouldn't it be a risk of your relationship if you do so? all this things you have to considered before making any move..
When opposite sides of a magnet are togather, they attract. But not all opposites attract. It may happen to someone who has a total opposite persona and are most likely not to get togather but in the end, they are couples. This happens when atleast, one of them is able to adapt to each others do's and dont's. Too much of opposite behavior could lead to a very disasterous relationship. You cant force someone to change over night. What you can do is to just be patient adapt to whoever you wish to be. The key word here is "Adaptability"
Love has no math or any scientific equation that could be explain over a piece of pen, paper and a cup of hot coffee. Many of us thought that a friendship from an opposite sex could end up in being a couple relationship. Not all cases happens like that. We have to be very careful in identifying what kind of relationship is the other party wants. All of this happens with our very own judgement and level of maturity. If you can identify which are just looking for friendship and which are looking just for friends, then your good to go.
And so, to those who are in love or looking for love, remember that patient is what we need in order to get what we want. Good things comes to those who wait..
